<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[UNWRITTEN]]></title><description><![CDATA[Capture Your Thoughts, Craft Your Story]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2026 11:07:34 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.saytheirname.ca/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[ADDICTION REPLACED HER FUTUREWITH A DEATH CERTIFICATE.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today, I was given McKayla’s death certificate. A piece of paper confirming that my beautiful granddaughter lived, and that her life is over. I looked at it and thought about how many certificates and pieces of paper we collect throughout a lifetime. They record our beginnings. Our accomplishments. Our independence. Our love. Our families. Our future. McKayla's life began with a birth certificate. Then came the little certificates, the ones that may not seem important until you realize they...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/addiction-replaced-her-futurewith-a-death-certificate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ab6feae26fe68309c068aac</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2026 23:08:14 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_9fdace350e8b4087a67ea0c9818a0101~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_526,h_526,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[EDUCATION CAN PREVENT CREMATION.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Some parents believe children are too young to learn about drugs. They believe avoiding the conversation is protecting them. It isn’t. Silence does not stop children from seeing a vape that smells sweet, a gummy that looks like candy or a pill offered by someone they trust. Silence only means they may face that moment without knowing the truth. The world our children are growing up in is not the world we grew up in. Drugs are changing rapidly, and they are reaching children at younger ages....]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/education-can-prevent-cremation</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ab6fe5726fe68309c0689f1</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2026 23:06:31 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_539125356ac24c2c8f5d1b32ffb0d7f6~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_526,h_526,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stop Before You Start]]></title><description><![CDATA[SCARE THEM WITH THE TRUTH— BEFORE DRUGS BECOME THEIR REALITY. Some people will not agree with what I am about to say. That is okay. Parents, scare your children with the truth about drugs. Tell them what addiction really looks like. Tell them that the first pill may not look dangerous. Tell them that the first person offering it may call themselves a friend. Tell them that drugs can lie to their brain, take control of their body and make stopping feel impossible. Tell them about the children...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/stop-before-you-start</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ab6fdfd0f6358bffa077814</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2026 23:05:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_61381c5b1f844fc3b52ce3319d05bc73~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_526,h_526,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[We Were Going To Write A Book Together ]]></title><description><![CDATA[McKayla and I were supposed to write a book together. I never imagined I would have to write it without her. This page began long before McKayla left this earth. It began in the conversations we had, the battles we fought, the lessons she taught me and the stories she believed the world needed to hear. When I wrote something that touched McKayla, she shared it with her friends. Many of those friends were living lives most people looked away from. They were struggling with homelessness,...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/we-were-going-to-write-a-book-together</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ab6fd966de3d82672ac7567</guid><pubDate>Fri, 25 Sep 2026 23:03:28 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_6bf32caa55d54231a86d145e4f327732~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_526,h_822,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[THE CALL]]></title><description><![CDATA[THE CALL When you love someone living in addiction, you are always waiting for the call. Every time the phone rings, your heart stops, especially when you do not recognize the number, or it rings late at night. You look at the screen and wonder: Is this it? Is this the call I have been terrified of? You dread it. You pray it will never come. But somewhere inside, you know it might. I think part of me believed that living with that fear was somehow preparing me. That if the call ever came, I...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/the-call</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa1f56d47bcd1dd22beb66b</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 23:34:06 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_b430488e76884af78d8986b46e733c89~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_512,h_640,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[DEAR MOM AND DAD,]]></title><description><![CDATA[DEAR MOM AND DAD, Let me introduce myself. I am the drug dealer looking for your child. You probably won’t see me standing outside their school. I rarely do my own dirty work. I use other young people, sometimes children your child already knows and trusts, to carry my drugs, deliver my messages and introduce me to my next customer. And yes, I am around elementary schools and high schools alike. Age does not matter to me. I am searching for your child. You think I am looking for someone...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/dear-mom-and-dad</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa1f56d47bcd1dd22beb669</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 23:32:39 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_7d37800d16b548aeb2321a1cfce7031e~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_526,h_526,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[DRUGS STOLE OUR FAMILY PHOTO…]]></title><description><![CDATA[DRUGS STOLE OUR FAMILY PHOTO We will never take another complete family photograph. We can gather everyone together. We can dress for the occasion. We can stand close, put our arms around one another and smile when someone says, “Look at the camera.” But the photograph will never be complete. There will always be someone missing. There will always be an empty space where McKayla should be. At every birthday. Every Christmas. Every wedding. Every new baby. Every ordinary Sunday when the family...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/drugs-stole-our-family-photo</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa1f56d47bcd1dd22beb66c</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2026 23:31:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_3a703a5584ee4b15a2b0f8cc0bca5a72~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[DRUGS MAKE YOU DEADLONG BEFORE YOU DIE.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Your funeral does not begin when your heart stops. It begins the first time drugs take something from you, and you let them stay long enough to take something else. First, they take the small things. A trophy covered in dust. A report card you no longer care about. A practice you stop attending. A dream you promise yourself you will return to someday. Then they take your friends. Not all at once. The friends who remember who you were try to reach you. They question you. They worry. They...]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/drugs-make-you-deadlong-before-you-die</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa1f56d47bcd1dd22beb670</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2026 20:13:58 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_51c6ae1b735a4a579ed8baf399cbe9d8~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_526,h_526,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Today I Am Angry]]></title><description><![CDATA[TODAY, I AM ANGRY This morning, I got out of bed, and one of the first things I saw was the beautiful urn holding McKayla’s ashes. I looked at that tiny box and broke. I touched it. I cried. And then I wanted to scream until there was no breath left inside me. Because everything my granddaughter was is now inside that urn. Drugs! Fucking powder turned my granddaughter into ashes. How is that even possible? How can something so small destroy something so beautiful? Those eyes used to shine....]]></description><link>https://www.saytheirname.ca/post/today-i-am-angry</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6aa1f56d47bcd1dd22beb66f</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2026 19:49:33 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/1e847b_0dd49fc4dce246a5ba3f57df6392edd7~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>lauraannturmel</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>